Another takeaway from this lesson is that sometimes we’re too focused on getting things done.
This is often done with the best intentions, but it’s not helping your horse. When you’re too busy trying to do the right thing, you’re actually drawing attention to the thing your horse finds the hardest, like how Bonny focused on girthing correctly but instead making it worse for her horse.
As soon as Bonny was distracted from the saddling itself, her horse relaxed because he felt less drawn to the points of pressure and tension